Embodiment Coaching
& Retreat Facilitation

 I'm Clair Joy, Somatica-trained embodiment coach and retreat facilitator with a knack for mixing depth with levity.

I believe we heal by being witness in creating a new memory in our bodies of joy and playfulness.

What I Do

For nearly a decade, I've supported humans of all kinds (yes, men too!) through coaching, circles, and retreats.

What lights me up is helping people land in their bodies, express their authentic selves, and remember they don't have to do it all alone.

Intimacy, Relationships & Embodied Living

 As a Somatica-trained love and relationship coach with 9+ years of experience, I help individuals and couples create the relationships and connection they desire.

Whether you're navigating dating, deepening intimacy, working through sexual challenges, or wanting to feel more alive in your body, I offer a safe, affirming space for transformation.

What I offer:

  • Relationship and intimacy coaching

  • Dearmouring and sacred sexuality sessions

  • Embodiment practices and somatic work

  • Energy work and ministerial services

  • Support for singles, couples, and those exploring new relationship styles

Retreat Support with Grace & Skill

 I specialize in helping facilitators create retreats that are easeful, nourishing, and unforgettable.

With experience supporting dozens of retreats worldwide — from plant medicine journeys to personal growth intensives — I bring logistics mastery, circle facilitation skills, and the ability to pivot gracefully when things don't go as planned.

What I bring:

  • Full retreat management and logistics support

  • Circle facilitation, ceremony, and ritual design

  • Grief integration and conscious movement practices

  • Experience as cook, driver, exercise leader, and problem-solver

  • The ability to wear all the hats so you don't have to

Professional Highlights

  • Heart Consciousness Minister & grief-trained death doula

  • 9+ years as an embodiment & intimacy coach

  • 20+ years in social work and community leadership

  • Facilitated workshops & ceremonies around the world

  • Queen of logistics and "making it work"

Love from past clients

I was blessed to attend a women's group she led- we met as a group a few times a month to have sharing circles, discussions, ceremony, and partner activities. The deep nourishing sisterhood and sacred attention given toward our desires and sexuality were incredibly healing.

Clair sets this tone in her work. She held the space of radical acceptance and loving awareness, which felt safe enough for very vulnerable and heartfelt sharing.

Whether you're ready to deepen your relationships or create an unforgettable retreat experience, I'm here to support your journey.

Take the next step towards fulfilling your heart's desires. 

An invitation to embodied living & sacred connection.

  • Embodiment Coaching – intimacy, mindfulness, and connection practices

  • Retreat Leading & Assisting – full-service support for facilitators

  • Circle Facilitation – women's circles, grief circles, ceremony

  • Grief Support – one-on-one or group care through times of loss

  • Dearmouring and sacred sexuality sessions